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Some more than others. But I have 23 years 1997-2020 South Park the Fractured But Whole shirt never taken the time to step back from all of them and pick and choose the best wisdom from each of them. I’m gonna try and begin that process now so bear with me. What I’ve come to see as what I feel I should be the main focus and I’ve written a lot about it in a rough draft of the book I have written is I believe that every borderline has a molten core within them. I think it holds all sorts of relationship trauma. All sorts of abuse issues. All sorts of commodification and meritocracy and colonial lysing issues. But mainly I would focus on trauma and relationship trauma in particular. I think the core, the molten core of a borderline is totally shellshocked.